Disabled Grandmother Raising Two Grandsons With Developmental Disabilities
by Nancy
(Las Cruces, NM, USA)
I'm a disabled grandmother raising two grandsons with developmental disabilities. I've been a registered nurse for 30 years in New Mexico. My grandsons have been with me since birth.
They receive Medicaid and nothing else from the state. I receive SSDI and Medicare. We do not get any kind of housing help. As my disability progresses it is harder to make ends meet.
I have a 2003 Saturn, which is marginal in drivability, and I'm still paying on it. I do not have sums of money tucked away for a down payment on a house or a new car.
I am most concerned about my youngest grandson who is cognitively unable to ever live by himself. I worked very hard all my life and kept my grandchildren so they could be raised in their own family.
It seems like if I had never worked and been a contributing member of society, I would be better off. My grandsons deserve a chance.
Please allow our family to make it. Let me know of any help I can get as a disabled grandmother raising two grandsons with developmental disabilities.